Wednesday, 27 June 2012

Roll over Miss Milly


Over the last few months, Milly has been starting to roll over.  While her efforts have been epic, for someone starting the movement process, they have taken time to yield the rewards of potential freedom and the opportunity to explore the larger world…well, our floor.   For that reason, I have yet to really discuss Milly’s efforts, in the process of rolling over, to any great length in this blog, but now the time has come. 

One thing has struck me in watching Milly work out the right sequence of movements that get her from her front to her back, and that is how easily we take for granted the our ability to move around.  Milly has had to learn how to position her arms so they aren’t in the way as she rolls, but are there to catch her when she gets over; which leg to move in order to pull herself over; how to arch her back to lift her shoulder off the floor; and how to do it all in reverse to get back onto her back.  The other important thing to learn is how to avoid landing flat on your face on the way down.  This, unfortunately is something that everyone has to learn the hard way.  Milly certainly did, but happily she learned this quickly and was soon making controlled landings on her front.  While Milly’s upper-body strength  took a little time to develop,  she would only be able to hold her head up for a little while once on her front.  As soon as she would start tiring, her head would go down on the floor, and she would begin to get frustrated.  Unfortunately, frustration would bring a lack of clear thinking, and she wouldn't be able to roll herself onto her back.  This meant that we went through a period where she could roll from her back to her front, from her front to her to her back, but it would only be on the rare occasion that she could put it all together and position herself how she wanted.

The beginning of the rolling process showed Milly that by rocking herself from one side to the other, she was able to wriggle herself towards anything she wanted.  This caused a few heart-stopping moments when, left safely in the middle of our bed, she would move herself towards one of her toys as soon as we turned around, and we would find her off towards one of the edges.  Needless to say, we have to keep a close eye on her now (I’m sure she already has a few places eyed up for when she is fully mobile!!!).  One of the great joys of Milly learning to roll has been the games we can play with her to encourage to roll over.  Strategically placing her favourite toys out of her reach to give her something to aim towards seemed to yield the best results.  It was also quite amusing to see her working out what was needed to get her to go that final inch.  The first few times that she rolled over, she must have had a cough which jerked her onto her front, because she went through a period of fake coughing when she got onto her side, to help her get over.  Watching that was really funny.  But eventually, as she continued to grow and learn, she has now mastered this art, and gets enormous pleasure from rolling over and over. 

An unfortunate drawback to Milly’s new found ability, is that she has figured out that it is a good way of keeping herself awake.  Almost every bedtime involves a tour around her cot as she strives to stay awake.  A few nights ago, giggling could be heard over the baby monitor, and on inspection, Elaine found Milly at the top of her cot, wrestling with her soft toys, having a ball!!!  Milly has now taken to sleeping on her side, which bought its own problems for the first few nights.  I seemed that Milly would get comfy, fall asleep, and then involuntarily roll onto her back, or her front, which would come as a shock, and she would wake up panicked.  Hopefully she has now passed this stage as she becomes more familiar with her movements!!!

In the last few days, Milly has started to put together the beginnings of a ‘commando’ crawl.  At the moment, it is completely inefficient, and she very often pushes herself backwards rather than forwards, but there is certainly the beginnings of a crawl.  For a few weeks, she had been moving her arms and legs but going absolutely nowhere, but she has started to move her arms and legs together now, and is slowly starting to drag herself forwards.  Her determination to reach certain toys seems to have no bounds!!!  

In other news, Elaine will soon be returning to work, and so we have been taking Milly into nursery to meet the staff, and make the place familiar to her before she starts properly…but that is for my next post!!!